"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to bring a girl home?

MrMarbles

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Let me explain. I started dating a girl a couple weeks ago. We live in NYC, which means when we go out, we arrange to meet some place and take a train there. Then when we are done we just go separate ways, again taking the subway to our respective parts of the city. Since I do not drop her off at her place, there isn't that "goodbye moment" in the car where we kiss and she offers for me to go "upstairs". So the entire date is sort of anticlimactic (no pun intended). So what do I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nicelife

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Ask her to come round to yours to watch a movie or some **** for your next date, then flop it out
 

saturos

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For your next date, try to arrange for a place very close to your house/residence.
After your date, ask her if she wants to come over, or tell her you want to show her something, etc.
Maybe its raining as well. That would be unfortunate, then she would have another reason to go over to your place for a little.
 

Garand

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Make sure you have a reason for her coming over, even if it's just "Do you want a coffee?" - the girl needs an alibi.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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