"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to bring a girl home?

MrMarbles

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Let me explain. I started dating a girl a couple weeks ago. We live in NYC, which means when we go out, we arrange to meet some place and take a train there. Then when we are done we just go separate ways, again taking the subway to our respective parts of the city. Since I do not drop her off at her place, there isn't that "goodbye moment" in the car where we kiss and she offers for me to go "upstairs". So the entire date is sort of anticlimactic (no pun intended). So what do I do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nicelife

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Ask her to come round to yours to watch a movie or some **** for your next date, then flop it out
 

saturos

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For your next date, try to arrange for a place very close to your house/residence.
After your date, ask her if she wants to come over, or tell her you want to show her something, etc.
Maybe its raining as well. That would be unfortunate, then she would have another reason to go over to your place for a little.
 

Garand

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Make sure you have a reason for her coming over, even if it's just "Do you want a coffee?" - the girl needs an alibi.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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