"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to bring a girl home?

MrMarbles

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Let me explain. I started dating a girl a couple weeks ago. We live in NYC, which means when we go out, we arrange to meet some place and take a train there. Then when we are done we just go separate ways, again taking the subway to our respective parts of the city. Since I do not drop her off at her place, there isn't that "goodbye moment" in the car where we kiss and she offers for me to go "upstairs". So the entire date is sort of anticlimactic (no pun intended). So what do I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nicelife

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Ask her to come round to yours to watch a movie or some **** for your next date, then flop it out
 

saturos

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For your next date, try to arrange for a place very close to your house/residence.
After your date, ask her if she wants to come over, or tell her you want to show her something, etc.
Maybe its raining as well. That would be unfortunate, then she would have another reason to go over to your place for a little.
 

Garand

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Make sure you have a reason for her coming over, even if it's just "Do you want a coffee?" - the girl needs an alibi.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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