"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Steve Martin is the master at breaking up......


"'I break with thee, I break with thee'. And then I throw dog pooh pooh on her shoe".
 
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Tell her she's a con...a con...a cont...a cont...tell her's she's a cont...continuing inspiration for you.
 
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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
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Just tell her what you told us or something along the lines of:
'it was great while it lasted and I appreciate you being there for me but the spark just died out and I feel as if its time to move on. I think we'd be better off as friends.'
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
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just out of curiosity you were the good looking guy right..

well maybe she was just with you for a short term fun and she expects to be let off after the sex interest is over ...?


Did you have sex with her yet?
 
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Well I broke it off with my GF on Sunday...I felt bad for like a day...Now I cany wait to meet some new girls...
 
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