Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Steve Martin is the master at breaking up......


"'I break with thee, I break with thee'. And then I throw dog pooh pooh on her shoe".
 
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Tell her she's a con...a con...a cont...a cont...tell her's she's a cont...continuing inspiration for you.
 
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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
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Just tell her what you told us or something along the lines of:
'it was great while it lasted and I appreciate you being there for me but the spark just died out and I feel as if its time to move on. I think we'd be better off as friends.'
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
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just out of curiosity you were the good looking guy right..

well maybe she was just with you for a short term fun and she expects to be let off after the sex interest is over ...?


Did you have sex with her yet?
 
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Well I broke it off with my GF on Sunday...I felt bad for like a day...Now I cany wait to meet some new girls...
 
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