"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Steve Martin is the master at breaking up......


"'I break with thee, I break with thee'. And then I throw dog pooh pooh on her shoe".
 
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Tell her she's a con...a con...a cont...a cont...tell her's she's a cont...continuing inspiration for you.
 
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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
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Just tell her what you told us or something along the lines of:
'it was great while it lasted and I appreciate you being there for me but the spark just died out and I feel as if its time to move on. I think we'd be better off as friends.'
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
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just out of curiosity you were the good looking guy right..

well maybe she was just with you for a short term fun and she expects to be let off after the sex interest is over ...?


Did you have sex with her yet?
 
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Well I broke it off with my GF on Sunday...I felt bad for like a day...Now I cany wait to meet some new girls...
 
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