"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to break up

NSUballer

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I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Randallpink83

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Steve Martin is the master at breaking up......


"'I break with thee, I break with thee'. And then I throw dog pooh pooh on her shoe".
 

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Tell her she's a con...a con...a cont...a cont...tell her's she's a cont...continuing inspiration for you.
 

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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.
Just tell her what you told us or something along the lines of:
'it was great while it lasted and I appreciate you being there for me but the spark just died out and I feel as if its time to move on. I think we'd be better off as friends.'
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KneghtRyder

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NSUballer said:
I want to break up with this girl Ive been with for the past 2 months. i really like her as a person and want to be friends. Shes been so good to me. She would literally do anything for me. She always pays for me to eat and drink, brings me anywhere I need to go and does alot of other things. I recently had knee surgery and she was there every step of the way doing whatever I asked of her. I feel like crap because she really is a good girl I just dont have any real feelings for her anymore. Advice from experienced DJs only.

just out of curiosity you were the good looking guy right..

well maybe she was just with you for a short term fun and she expects to be let off after the sex interest is over ...?


Did you have sex with her yet?
 

NSUballer

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Well I broke it off with my GF on Sunday...I felt bad for like a day...Now I cany wait to meet some new girls...
 
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