the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
here is a pornstar with no makeup
still a solid 8/10
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes but she's a plain Jane there isn't she ?the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
Nah the hunger games chick with out make up to me is a solid 4. Porn star with out makeup is a 4 1/2the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
here is a pornstar with no makeup
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still a solid 8/10
Nah the hunger games chick with out make up to me is a solid 4. Porn star with out makeup is a 4 1/2
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I see cuter women on the street often. I worked retail for years I've seen thousands of faces up close. People are generally uglyyou're smoking crack. The pornstar has beautiful, near flawless skin, great eyes, excellent facial structure, good teeth, great hair
if that's a 4.5/10, the avg woman on the streets is a 0/10
Porn is a master of make up nails and weaves. Filters are used.you're smoking crack. The pornstar has beautiful, near flawless skin, great eyes, excellent facial structure, good teeth, great hair
if that's a 4.5/10, the avg woman on the streets is a 0/10
I wouldn't even be bothered rating her.the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
here is a pornstar with no makeup
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still a solid 8/10
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It makes your dyck harder, huh? So a slim one would yield a less than par erection?I like women of all races let me preface that. Love Latinas, Arabian women, white black. But I have personal preferences like big almond brown eyes doesn't mean I wouldn't date a chick with colored eyes I have dated plenty cause I'm a man. I like busty curvy thick women. Some might be considered fat to some on here but it's my preference
Yes I've dated slim chicks I'm not going to lie the sex better with slim chicks. That's what I generally experienced. I like slim women to slim but a hint of curvesIt makes your dyck harder, huh? So a slim one would yield a less than par erection?
I wouldn't even be bothered rating her.
I'd dismissed her outright. Shes not even on any rating scale. Sorry man.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thought your type was thick?Yes I've dated slim chicks I'm not going to lie the sex better with slim chicks. That's what I generally experienced. I like slim women to slim but a hint of curves
It is but sometimes there's exceptionsThought your type was thick?
My type
So thick normally makez a harder boner?It is but sometimes there's exceptions
Yes pretty muchSo thick normally makez a harder boner?
On me athletic chicks make the hardest one.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.