the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
here is a pornstar with no makeup
still a solid 8/10
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes but she's a plain Jane there isn't she ?the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
Nah the hunger games chick with out make up to me is a solid 4. Porn star with out makeup is a 4 1/2the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
here is a pornstar with no makeup
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still a solid 8/10
Nah the hunger games chick with out make up to me is a solid 4. Porn star with out makeup is a 4 1/2
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I see cuter women on the street often. I worked retail for years I've seen thousands of faces up close. People are generally uglyyou're smoking crack. The pornstar has beautiful, near flawless skin, great eyes, excellent facial structure, good teeth, great hair
if that's a 4.5/10, the avg woman on the streets is a 0/10
Porn is a master of make up nails and weaves. Filters are used.you're smoking crack. The pornstar has beautiful, near flawless skin, great eyes, excellent facial structure, good teeth, great hair
if that's a 4.5/10, the avg woman on the streets is a 0/10
I wouldn't even be bothered rating her.the picture on left is an absolutely horrible pic but even there you can see she has nice skin and good facial structure
here is a pornstar with no makeup
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still a solid 8/10
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It makes your dyck harder, huh? So a slim one would yield a less than par erection?I like women of all races let me preface that. Love Latinas, Arabian women, white black. But I have personal preferences like big almond brown eyes doesn't mean I wouldn't date a chick with colored eyes I have dated plenty cause I'm a man. I like busty curvy thick women. Some might be considered fat to some on here but it's my preference
Yes I've dated slim chicks I'm not going to lie the sex better with slim chicks. That's what I generally experienced. I like slim women to slim but a hint of curvesIt makes your dyck harder, huh? So a slim one would yield a less than par erection?
I wouldn't even be bothered rating her.
I'd dismissed her outright. Shes not even on any rating scale. Sorry man.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thought your type was thick?Yes I've dated slim chicks I'm not going to lie the sex better with slim chicks. That's what I generally experienced. I like slim women to slim but a hint of curves
It is but sometimes there's exceptionsThought your type was thick?
My type
So thick normally makez a harder boner?It is but sometimes there's exceptions
Yes pretty muchSo thick normally makez a harder boner?
On me athletic chicks make the hardest one.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.