"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to be more outgoing?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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B-Lemond

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This might be the EASIEST question.

How do you become more outgoing, you ask?

The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp

Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...

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Nevermind, i think im going to go to the doctor to get some prozac or whatever that is to make me feel better and get confidence.
 

oakraiderz2

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Locster said:
Nevermind, i think im going to go to the doctor to get some prozac or whatever that is to make me feel better and get confidence.
Dont get prozac, its gonna fvck you up. Its easier to do it yourself with hard work than thinking a drug is going to alliviate your problems. If you feel like becoming depressed then take prozac Spend your money with a therapist if you feel you need that much help overcoming this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just make a point of talking to 5 strangers everday for at least 2 or 3 minutes and you will find you become more outgoing
 

Rocko

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I agree with what Ken said, but i also read in my psych book that taken a jog through your neighborhood releases chemicals that can help you feel better, if you don't like that, it also said to act like things are positive, act happy and people will react better toward you, eventually convincing your subconsious that you truly are happy
 
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