Locster
Don Juan
Can anybody help me
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to be more outgoing?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Look, you have to be specific
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
This might be the EASIEST question.
How do you become more outgoing, you ask?
The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp
Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...
How do you become more outgoing, you ask?
The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp
Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...
Locster
Don Juan
Nevermind, i think im going to go to the doctor to get some prozac or whatever that is to make me feel better and get confidence.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Dont get prozac, its gonna fvck you up. Its easier to do it yourself with hard work than thinking a drug is going to alliviate your problems. If you feel like becoming depressed then take prozac Spend your money with a therapist if you feel you need that much help overcoming this.Locster said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
I agree with what Ken said, but i also read in my psych book that taken a jog through your neighborhood releases chemicals that can help you feel better, if you don't like that, it also said to act like things are positive, act happy and people will react better toward you, eventually convincing your subconsious that you truly are happy