Locster
Don Juan
Can anybody help me
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to be more outgoing?
- Thread starter Locster
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Look, you have to be specific
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
This might be the EASIEST question.
How do you become more outgoing, you ask?
The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp
Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...
How do you become more outgoing, you ask?
The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp
Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...
Locster
Don Juan
Nevermind, i think im going to go to the doctor to get some prozac or whatever that is to make me feel better and get confidence.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Dont get prozac, its gonna fvck you up. Its easier to do it yourself with hard work than thinking a drug is going to alliviate your problems. If you feel like becoming depressed then take prozac Spend your money with a therapist if you feel you need that much help overcoming this.Locster said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
I agree with what Ken said, but i also read in my psych book that taken a jog through your neighborhood releases chemicals that can help you feel better, if you don't like that, it also said to act like things are positive, act happy and people will react better toward you, eventually convincing your subconsious that you truly are happy