Locster
Don Juan
Can anybody help me
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to be more outgoing?
- Thread starter Locster
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Look, you have to be specific
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
This might be the EASIEST question.
How do you become more outgoing, you ask?
The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp
Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...
How do you become more outgoing, you ask?
The DJ Bootcamp or ANY Bootcamp
Stay Positive and You'll Reach Your Goals...
Locster
Don Juan
Nevermind, i think im going to go to the doctor to get some prozac or whatever that is to make me feel better and get confidence.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Dont get prozac, its gonna fvck you up. Its easier to do it yourself with hard work than thinking a drug is going to alliviate your problems. If you feel like becoming depressed then take prozac Spend your money with a therapist if you feel you need that much help overcoming this.Locster said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
I agree with what Ken said, but i also read in my psych book that taken a jog through your neighborhood releases chemicals that can help you feel better, if you don't like that, it also said to act like things are positive, act happy and people will react better toward you, eventually convincing your subconsious that you truly are happy