"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to be a bit taller

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I need to be a bit taller (at least by an inch). I am 5' 5'' now and am not comfortable with this. Is it impossible at my age? I'm 27 now.

Anyone can throw some suggestions/ good websites etc. should be helpful.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Duke

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Get over your height issue. You are using it as an excuse. Some of the BEST seducers in the game are classified as short. Height isn't a biological issue like FATNESS is. If you can compensate for the social value lost by your height via seducing the girl, being charming, having a sense of humor, being a good storyteller, etc, then it won't matter. Trust me. I was in a LTR with a girl for a year whose 5'10 and I'm 5'6.

Attract them and connect with them enough and it won't matter. Don't use your height as an excuse.

If you feel like taller guys have an advantage over you, remember that people only have the power that you give them. Don't acknowledge the height difference. If worst case scenario, some AMOG tries to insult you on it, socially tool him and make him look like a dumbass.

If a girl calls you short, then she's SH!T TESTING YOU. Don't fold. Reframe it.
 

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Work on what you can change. Forget what you can't. This is the standard answer.

You certainly want to check out your posture. Most people have pure posture and this can appear or actually increase your height by an inch or so.

I don't see anything wrong with wearing shoes/boots with a reasonable heel. But Cuban's smack shortarse with height issues.

Tone up, tan up and dress well.

Have you ever known someone for a while, suddenly one day you realise how short they are. Wonder why that happens?
 

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Yeah. Right now I'm working on a 6 foot chick (model) and I'm 5'4". This one's gonna be touch as hell though cause she told me she would never date someone shorter than her and she's not looking for a relationship . . . but then again, I haven't had a good challenge in a LONG time. I may not get her in the end, but I'm having a fun as hell time trying!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alpine

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I admire your attitude. At 5 6' to date a 6 footer I'd feel daft, I know you shouldn't but i draw the line at 5 or 6 inches.
 

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My dad is 5'5" and he has all sorts of women... and he's married... I know he has women cause they always call the house tryin to start stuff wit my mom... Once a playa, always a playa right???
 

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Ice cream man.

Doesn't that bother you at all? I don't know how old you are but it would bother me.

Sounds like you are already set to carry on the tradition. We're all blokes and even in realtionships you can still feel the urge to play around, but I wouldn't want to shove that in my kids face.
 

sfalexi

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Yeah, Alpine, I have no reserves when it comes to height (or for that matter any other 'odd' qualities) in women. One of the best girls I ever dated was four inches taller, rode a harley, was wicca(believing strongly in nature and witchcraft), a horseback rider and a bisexual. She also had a girlfriend at the time we were dating. But all that really matters to me is just three things. (A) they gotta have nice hair, (B) gotta have a nice body, and (C) we gotta get along well.

She got all three, so I went out with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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