"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to be a bit taller

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I need to be a bit taller (at least by an inch). I am 5' 5'' now and am not comfortable with this. Is it impossible at my age? I'm 27 now.

Anyone can throw some suggestions/ good websites etc. should be helpful.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Duke

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Get over your height issue. You are using it as an excuse. Some of the BEST seducers in the game are classified as short. Height isn't a biological issue like FATNESS is. If you can compensate for the social value lost by your height via seducing the girl, being charming, having a sense of humor, being a good storyteller, etc, then it won't matter. Trust me. I was in a LTR with a girl for a year whose 5'10 and I'm 5'6.

Attract them and connect with them enough and it won't matter. Don't use your height as an excuse.

If you feel like taller guys have an advantage over you, remember that people only have the power that you give them. Don't acknowledge the height difference. If worst case scenario, some AMOG tries to insult you on it, socially tool him and make him look like a dumbass.

If a girl calls you short, then she's SH!T TESTING YOU. Don't fold. Reframe it.
 

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Work on what you can change. Forget what you can't. This is the standard answer.

You certainly want to check out your posture. Most people have pure posture and this can appear or actually increase your height by an inch or so.

I don't see anything wrong with wearing shoes/boots with a reasonable heel. But Cuban's smack shortarse with height issues.

Tone up, tan up and dress well.

Have you ever known someone for a while, suddenly one day you realise how short they are. Wonder why that happens?
 

sfalexi

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Yeah. Right now I'm working on a 6 foot chick (model) and I'm 5'4". This one's gonna be touch as hell though cause she told me she would never date someone shorter than her and she's not looking for a relationship . . . but then again, I haven't had a good challenge in a LONG time. I may not get her in the end, but I'm having a fun as hell time trying!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alpine

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I admire your attitude. At 5 6' to date a 6 footer I'd feel daft, I know you shouldn't but i draw the line at 5 or 6 inches.
 

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My dad is 5'5" and he has all sorts of women... and he's married... I know he has women cause they always call the house tryin to start stuff wit my mom... Once a playa, always a playa right???
 

Alpine

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Ice cream man.

Doesn't that bother you at all? I don't know how old you are but it would bother me.

Sounds like you are already set to carry on the tradition. We're all blokes and even in realtionships you can still feel the urge to play around, but I wouldn't want to shove that in my kids face.
 

sfalexi

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Yeah, Alpine, I have no reserves when it comes to height (or for that matter any other 'odd' qualities) in women. One of the best girls I ever dated was four inches taller, rode a harley, was wicca(believing strongly in nature and witchcraft), a horseback rider and a bisexual. She also had a girlfriend at the time we were dating. But all that really matters to me is just three things. (A) they gotta have nice hair, (B) gotta have a nice body, and (C) we gotta get along well.

She got all three, so I went out with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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