"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to be a bad boy WITHOUT coming off as an a $ $ h 0 l e

Demystify

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So I've learned that it's hard for me to be a bad boy and not come off as an a$$h0le. Any advice on how not to be a bad boy and not come of as an a$$h0le?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Proselytiser

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Demystify, you'd need to have been both the penultimate bad boy and the penultimate PUA to make a reasonable comparison on the effectiveness of each 'strategy'. In other words, you don't know wtf you're talking about.

Wanna be a bad boy? Contact a shady psychotherapist and have him plant repressed memories in you of sexual abuse as a child. Should work wonders.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory

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mustfirstregister said:
why do you wanna be a bad boy?
be a PUA instead.
Yeah. Apply some of that C1, D1 level 2 comfort builder sh*t.
 
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So you want to act like a bad boy... lol, why don't you go to Hollywood and start acting? Life is not about acting (unless you are a professional).
 

Demystify

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Thanks for all the advice, but many of you aren't answer the original question:

How to be a bad boy WITHOUT coming off as an a $ $ h 0 l e
 

Julius_Seizeher

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It's the bad boy with the heart of gold who they go nuts for. Ever has it been, ever shall it be.

In other words, the bad boy/sometimes a$$hole who is 'misunderstood'. Think James Dean and every rock star who ever lived.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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horaholic

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Bad boys dont care if people think they're an assh0le or not.

But, people will only think you're an assh0le if you do wrong to people, so dont. Simple as that.
 

Alle_Gory

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Don't attack the girls.

For example. A bad boy doesn't take sh*t from people in charge. An assh*le will judge you based on what haircut you have. One is defense, the other is pointless attack on someone's personality and choice.

A badboy is courageous and does things despite warnings from other people. An assh*le doesn't give a sh*t and won't help you out even if you ask for help. In fact, the assh*le will probably kick you while you're down.


... etc. Something like that.
 
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