"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to be a bad boy WITHOUT coming off as an a $ $ h 0 l e
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mustfirstregister
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be a PUA instead.
Because bad boys get more girls than PUAsmustfirstregister said:why do you wanna be a bad boy?
be a PUA instead.
Proselytiser
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Wanna be a bad boy? Contact a shady psychotherapist and have him plant repressed memories in you of sexual abuse as a child. Should work wonders.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah. Apply some of that C1, D1 level 2 comfort builder sh*t.mustfirstregister said:why do you wanna be a bad boy?
be a PUA instead.
The Decay of Meaning
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Julius_Seizeher
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In other words, the bad boy/sometimes a$$hole who is 'misunderstood'. Think James Dean and every rock star who ever lived.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
For example. A bad boy doesn't take sh*t from people in charge. An assh*le will judge you based on what haircut you have. One is defense, the other is pointless attack on someone's personality and choice.
A badboy is courageous and does things despite warnings from other people. An assh*le doesn't give a sh*t and won't help you out even if you ask for help. In fact, the assh*le will probably kick you while you're down.
... etc. Something like that.