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How to bang regardless of her mood?

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Hey guys

i have a question for you. How do some guys ( maybe even some of you ) bang women who don't have genuine desire for them like hookers? How can someone have such a mindset? I need a minimum level of comfort and submissiviness in order to bang her good but many men don't need that. They meet the girl, treat her like a sex doll and leave. Is something wrong with me? What does such a man have what i don't have? I guess confidence and idgaf attitude plays a role.
 

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Hey guys

i have a question for you. How do some guys ( maybe even some of you ) bang women who don't have genuine desire for them like hookers? How can someone have such a mindset? I need a minimum level of comfort and submissiviness in order to bang her good but many men don't need that. They meet the girl, treat her like a sex doll and leave. Is something wrong with me? What does such a man have what i don't have? I guess confidence and idgaf attitude plays a role.
Baibars some of those men don't even know what true desire feels like. They don't know it keeps your sex drive revved up, and makes your d1ck harder than ever.
 

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I think it helps if you have'nt had sex for a while. Just feeling the warmth of a woman...kissing her...feeling her tits and p*ssy, will get your dic*k hard enough to pump and dump.
 

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If the female is denying you sex because she's not in the mood, get rid of her. Now, if she's sick or not feeling well (medically), then she can get a pass. Too many of them, you need to have a talk and put her ass on point.
For many years my women were under a spell that if I tried to get some, they'd get horny and sex would happen.
 

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My girlfriend a few years ago once told me:

"I might not always be in the mood for sex but you always have the opportunity to change my mood"

Read that and then read it again.

The key to your question is you change the mood they were in to one conducive to sex happening.
 

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It's nature. There are girls who you look only as a subject, who you want to fvck and that's it. I've also meet girls who are desirable to me only if I'm horny, if I'm not I wouldn't look at her.

But when it comes to really high quality women that I consider ltr that's a different thing.
 

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It's nature. There are girls who you look only as a subject, who you want to fvck and that's it. I've also meet girls who are desirable to me only if I'm horny, if I'm not I wouldn't look at her.

But when it comes to really high quality women that I consider ltr that's a different thing.
what if you can't look at girls as subjects who actually are subjects? Such girls usually have a triple digit notch count and they are not really submissive or sweet but they let you ****.
Such women make me nervous since i expect from a woman to be submissive and more shy than me. Whenever i'm with such a shy nervous girl i get a boner even when i talk to her.
I just can't perform on these cold experienced bad girls. But it seems like some men don't care about that. They bang these women as if they are some masturbation tool. I just don't understand how they do that.
Just like porn stars. These guys pull out and bang. They just don't care. I couldn't do that.
 

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what if you can't look at girls as subjects who actually are subjects? Such girls usually have a triple digit notch count and they are not really submissive or sweet but they let you ****.
Such women make me nervous since i expect from a woman to be submissive and more shy than me. Whenever i'm with such a shy nervous girl i get a boner even when i talk to her.
I just can't perform on these cold experienced bad girls. But it seems like some men don't care about that. They bang these women as if they are some masturbation tool. I just don't understand how they do that.
Just like porn stars. These guys pull out and bang. They just don't care. I couldn't do that.
Higher confidence maybe or it could be your gut is telling you this isn't right and then you're body doesn't want to proceed.
 

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what if you can't look at girls as subjects who actually are subjects? Such girls usually have a triple digit notch count and they are not really submissive or sweet but they let you ****.
Such women make me nervous since i expect from a woman to be submissive and more shy than me. Whenever i'm with such a shy nervous girl i get a boner even when i talk to her.
I just can't perform on these cold experienced bad girls. But it seems like some men don't care about that. They bang these women as if they are some masturbation tool. I just don't understand how they do that.
Just like porn stars. These guys pull out and bang. They just don't care. I couldn't do that.
nothing to fix. pick the girls you like, that treat you how you want. if the girl is not submitting; give it to her harder, and harder, like.. I'll show you who is boss. If it doesn't work get a different girl because she is defective(don't tell her that, she will never admit it and just give you a bunch of bull). let some other dude deal with her attitude. some really want you to overpower them others will just already have that submission based on her internal thoughts.
 

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nothing to fix. pick the girls you like, that treat you how you want. if the girl is not submitting; give it to her harder, and harder, like.. I'll show you who is boss. If it doesn't work get a different girl because she is defective(don't tell her that, she will never admit it and just give you a bunch of bull). let some other dude deal with her attitude. some really want you to overpower them others will just already have that submission based on her internal thoughts.
You don't get much sex do you?
 

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You don't get much sex do you?
maybe i do; maybe i don't. and you care why?

if you have a different opinion on this thread; tell it. i don't think the thread was about me.

the man asking can and should consider all the ideas to help him. if you have a better idea try to help him out.
 

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Story from last night...was with my main plate/pseudo gf and we got done watching a movie and went to bed. I started making out with her and rubbing her up and down her body and she was enjoying it but at some point she just says "I don't know why I can't stop thinking about all these other things on my mind right now...I can't get into it, I feel like I just want to chill."

Did I get upset or butt hurt? No. I just kissed her, said sleep well and she snuggled up next to me and fell asleep. She was really wore out from a long and stressful work week. Obviously she appreciated it because she woke me up around 6am this morning by stroking my c0ck and by the time I opened my eyes it was in her mouth...then we fvcked for an hour and a half straight.

Sometimes you can't always get your way and just need to be a little patient.
 
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