How To Ask

[Haboob]

Theres this girl in my class that I want to ask out. I'm 15, in high school and havn't asked anyone out before. So I don't know how I should go about it.

Should I ask her out somewhere? Where? I can't drive a car yet!

The whole concept of a 'date' seems weird to me. Even other guys my age with girlfriends don't go out on 'dates'.

So could someone please offer me some advice?

Thanks

 

[comic_relief]

1.) read the DJ Bible
2.) Get the number
3.) Call and TELL her that you two should meet up at "XYZ" location
4.) Meet up and have a blast
5.) repeat 3 and 4

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[supajsilver2]

don't think of a date as being so formal. a date can be her coming over to sit around, watch a movie, and check out eachother's mouths for awhile.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

don't think of a date as being so formal. a date can be her coming over to sit around, watch a movie, and check out eachother's mouths for awhile.

liar... dates are formal.

Go buy a white dress shirt, black dress pants, black dress shoes, etc. Make sure you're looking your prettiest too.

Since it's formal... address her as 'Miss' or 'M'Lady'... such as "You are looking exquisite today, m'lady. Shall we go on with our engagement?"

That will sweep her off of her feet... head over heels in love with you.

Don't bother expecting them to go out with you as a boyfriend-girlfriend kind of thing... it's so pointless... you don't have a car like you said.

Do what kids do at your age... go ask them to hangout with a group of friends at a movie theatre or mall... then when you have LOTS of friends... when you're older you can start doing more "mature" dates... because you're already "in the good ol gang".

 

[Distant Light]

don't think of a date as being so formal. a date can be her coming over to sit around, watch a movie, and check out eachother's mouths for awhile.

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That is why its called a Day 2, get out of the frame of thinking "I'm on a date", the word date is usually thought of as a dinner and then movies where the man is a gentlemen and pays for everything and then tries for a kiss at the end.

Think of it as a hangout, best way is to do your normal game get the # and either try to get a day2 or instant date. Even just venue changing to somewhere else will get you further in the interaction.

 

[GaryUranga]

ask her if she wants to come over and play with your little men then stare at her and then after 3 minutes of non-conversational staring give her a dirty wink.

 

[Haboob]

Alright I want to ask her to hang out then. Where should we go? You guys arent exactly helping.

 

[djweses89]

one thing have you even talked to her before. does she know your intrested? is she intrested? now as far as where to go... go anywhere movies mall out to eat somewheree for your age and not drivin movies would be best get a couple of friends or w/e get her to bring some friends have some fun. but really need some more detail on your situation more things about her what kind of person she is wat kind of relationship or w/e yall have now like how well she knows you and stuff .

 

[Haboob]

well... ive been in her class for a whole year. I talk to her, but not quite enough to know lots about her. I guess i would consider us friends. Is she interested? Who wouldnt be interested in me? Yes, I think she is. (I hope)

Thing is I have NEVER done this before.

I don't really hang out around town in large groups a lot. Mainly just with a few good friends.

 

[GaryUranga]

I cant tell you how to do it, but Id just do it casually, nothing too "dateish" to start with, casual, maybe hangout with some friends in common.

 

[ye yeah]

couldnt be easier mate..

after a little small talk in class

you- hey whats doing saturday night?
her-im not sure yet,maybe this or this..you?
you-ohh ok cool,oi me and my mates are drinking *or whatever* you should come?

and then if she says yeah,say i'll grab your number and we'll work it out before then

if she makes up bull and avoids eye contact,just forget it