Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ARE YOU SERIOUS?charnsak said:I have meet a girl at my workplace.
We go out together for 3 times.
But I don't know how she is feeling with me, Friend or more.
I am a nice guy for the first 2 dates.
but after I found this site I have changed (not much) using some technique in the DJ Bible.
Now I asked her out but she declined. I don't know why may be she is busy.
The point is I want to go more far than this, 3 dates should be enough to ask her to become my girlfriend right?
I will try asking her to hang out again, if she say YES I will ask her to become my girlfriend.
Do you have any idea on this situation?. any suggestion to ask her?. Am I doing the right thing?
thank you
For a kid your age, you begin learning about "girlfriend" too early.charnsak said:OK, I asked her out again today, she rejected.
feeling desperated now, but I will move on.
I am trying to make myself as normal as possible when talking and reacting to her
ahhhh AD's machine. True knowledge at it's finestObsidian said:Pook can help you if you are willing to take direction:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39769
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39785
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39887
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39888
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40188
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40241
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40347
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40698
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=58363
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That depends, at least here in Brazil is culturally expected that the man (or sometimes the girl) ask the other person to be "girlfriend/boyfriend". Of course, after long time having romantic seeingsCentaurion said:How old are you? 11?
You don't ask a girl to be your "girlfriend". It's something that happens over time.
Best fit for AE section.SinJester said:This sounds like it should be in the hgih school forum. lol
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.