"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to approach women when they're with other men?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
1. Approach the girl and ignore the guy, assume he's not there (could be dangerous if its his gf and he's bigger than you)
2. Approach the guy and ignore the girl, assume she's not there and get HIM to introduce you to the girl. This never fails, once you Out-Alpha the guy he'll try to make up for it by showing off the girl and inadvertantly giving you the 'in' you were waiting for... my favorite
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^ ^ ^ I've met guys like you before... I'd have you introducing me to your girl within 5 minutes haha, or of course I'd have to entertain the option that I'd be laying on my back, but with my experience and confidence I'm going with u introducing me to your girl
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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BTW THIS IS A JOKE DONT DO IT UNLESS YOU ARE PRETTY SURE YOU CAN KNOCK THE GUY OUT!
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1.Approach the girl and ignore the guy, assume he's not there (could be dangerous if its his gf and he's bigger than you)
2. Approach the guy and ignore the girl, assume she's not there and get HIM to introduce you to the girl. This never fails, once you Out-Alpha the guy he'll try to make up for it by showing off the girl and inadvertantly giving you the 'in' you were waiting for...
To the original poster, have you read my thread I just made? You guys are still "working for women." What's going to come of this situation? If he is a alpha male in any fashion, he'll know what the fvck you are doing, you think he's just going to take that disrespect? When you are laid out with fvcking acid thrown on your azz you'll get the point.
So what happens, you guys start fighting over a girl, she stands back and watches, knowing her "power" is still good. Read my thread, let a woman come up to you and your girl and try to take you and let them two fight.
Why would you want to put yourself in this situation?
If you tried to do that to me...first off, I would have my girl programmed to not even speak to you first off....secondly, I would kindly let you "approach me" then get you to come with us to some isolated spot. Then when we get there, have my boys beat the living fvck outta you. You tell me brotha, is it worth it?
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And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sounds crazy alpha, I really am trying to get my confidence up so I can be on this level. Hell yeah. Except the "If you want a Manfriend..." part. I know it's a joke. But yeah, as a DJ, I'll respect another kat's relationship or whatever so I prolly nod or somethin and be like "my fault partna" and make a good exit (don't want it to look awkward lol).Dayum itz jee said:
But if she says no and I be like "Well when you finish talkin to this kid, I need u to holla at me." And decide right there whether it's a situation where I need to give her my number or if there's time for her to get back @ me later that night.
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WHY ARE YOU SUCH A LOSER THAT YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO THINK THE WORST ABOUT EVERYONE, DID IT EVER ENTER YOUR THICK HEAD THAT THE GUYS WHO HAVE WRITTEN THESE POSTS MAY BE MUCH BETTER FIGHTERS THAN THE GUYS THAT THEY ARE UP AGAINST, GET A BRAIN.DonJuanForever said:
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Listening to these lames are going to get you ur as z beat.Reloaded said:
You have another post about you wanting to pretend to be a "bad boy," and I consider anyone who has to ask such a question should stick to non-bad boy ways, because you'll end up getting puched in your throat if you follow what these KBJ's tell you.
Leave other guys girls alone have a lil respect before someone teaches you about it.
You guys get more pathetic every fking day (all of you.)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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He's not the REAL problems. The advice that these idiots pass as knowledge is the problem.rocky_mtn said:
On the other hand, sometimes I'll see couples walking around and the girl looks bored, her body language is showing disinterest in the guy... Usually these same girls will hold eye contact with me if I catch their eye. If they hold eye contact with you for a good time, then the other guy is probably an AFC / you sparked her interest. This all usually happens when the other guy is looking away to a different direction.
At this point you'll both "know" that you want her and she wants you
, so she's sorta even hoping that you'll approach her somehow someway.Now the challenge is that even if she is interested in you, she would not usually be too keen on giving you her # right in front of the other guy, even if she is NOT interested in him (it's all about avoiding looking like a sl*t or easy, women will do this at all costs).
Your best bet? Catch her when the guy steps away or she walks off to somewhere else by herself. What if you got no choice and must talk to her with the guy there? Then AVOID asking them if they are in a relationship; don't say stuff like (Is this your brother/friend/boyfriend?). Just keep the focus of the attention off their connection/relation. Chat up the girl with a little fluff talk. Once in a while the guy might start talking, to him just say stuff like "hey are those Levis Jeans? Cool. I got the same ones!" Then turn back to the chick and continue talking. Don't make it look too seductive/romantic/sexual, but with the girl make it look like a "buddies connection." Here you're talking about similar interests, places to go to, things to do. Then just finish off with "hey look i gotta get going, gimme your # and we'll stay in touch" She'll prefer you not to lean too far into romantic communication because the other guy is there (trying not to be a sl*t thing, once again).
THen later on when you contact her when the other guy isn't there, you can kick your seduction up a notch :rockon:
If you do this routine right, she will "get" what's going on and so will you. Maybe even the other guy, but it will all be so subtle and smooth that the other guy cannot implicate anyone for anything without looking like an *******. And if he does, this makes him even more AFC, only making your odds better :yes:
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Come on get real... Did you come up with this from your mom's basement?
So, a guy is suppose to sit back and listen to you fluff talk his girl, ask him about his jean, and then try to number close his chick??? Get Real!
I don't care how smooth your mother and her friends say you are- there's no way her BF will stand for this.
Try this around a real man and you are going to get shutdown in a heart beat: "Get the **** out of here."
Where do you fools come from??? WTF
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Wrong, if shes a 5-9 with a healthy social life shes gonna have some kind of c@ck around anyway (this is basic sh!t btw).oakraiderz2 said:
Just because another c@ck happens to be physically present in this instance doesnt make him a "chump" for not giving a fvck.
Try labelling guys "chumps" who actually deserve it.
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Say there's a girl working at a fast food place behind the register. You don't know her name but have flirted/joked before, and you frequent the place because the food is good.
Last time you were eyeing one of the girls there, the manager starts asking you about how you will spend your summer. Kind of like blocking you, but you're not positive about it.
So...you want to get this chick's name and number, but there's other guys that work there, and the manager guy.
I'm not afraid of the manager or anyone. I don't fear getting rejected. My problem is that I know that girls rarely toss up the number when they're around other guys or feel comfortable doing so...it's mostly something they would do when in a less crowded or alone situation. I'm asking, out of respect for her, and not being a selfish prick...So, how do you go about #closing...she's attracted, and so am I. Do you just try to catch her on break or something?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.