You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude, I can't help but notice that you talk alot of sh!t. Anyway, thanks for guys giving good input, like Gary and SELF.Gamernub said:You're a noob
I agree! Thank god there are at least some posters living in the REAL world!SELF-MASTERY said:^^^
Come on get real... Did you come up with this from your mom's basement?
So, a guy is suppose to sit back and listen to you fluff talk his girl, ask him about his jean, and then try to number close his chick??? Get Real!
I don't care how smooth your mother and her friends say you are- there's no way her BF will stand for this.
Try this around a real man and you are going to get shutdown in a heart beat: "Get the **** out of here."
Where do you fools come from??? WTF
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuanForever said:Out of the 10 guys approaching a hb a week, only one gets in. Which one? The one with the masculinity. Guys that do what you guys are posting, are not masculine. For one, if you are so "good" if you see her with her man, why are you hell bent on getting into a fight just to get her. You guys think it's a game, as if you can "look" at somebody and determine if you can whoop his azz, lol, lol, lol. You don't know what the hell he's holding, nor, who the hell he's here with. Some guys will kill another dude over a girl, is it worth it? Why not just wait until she's alone you dumbazzes. While you're going out thinking you are Steve Austin, I bet you won't feel so don juan and suave laying in the hospital after that guy you thought was a bytch, jit-jitzu'ed your azz and broke your arm, your leg, and your neck.
And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
Damn right!SELF-MASTERY said:Threads like this one really show why PUA tactics are nothing, but nerd science gone wrong.
----Now my wing distracts him while I game his girl and he doesn't notice me doing a magic trick I learned from mystery.---- Get Real...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this oneReloaded said:I don't like approaching women when they are with other men. What should I do about this problem?
Your post here and this topic (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105083) prove that you are, in fact, and AFC AND a troll. My advice to you is to shut the f u c k up, turn off your computer, put away the lotion and go get laid.dreamxhenry_notAFC said:OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this one
http/www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php=3ft=3d105037&page=3d2
its about a another guy hitting on your girlfriend
read that thread,then ask the guy who started the thread your question it will solve your problems.
Sig'dDeus ex Pianoforte said:And waiting until she goes to the bathroom or until the dude gets distracted is pus$y $hit. That's like punching a guy in the sack while he sleeps, then running out of the room before he can turn on the lights to see who it was.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.