How to approach women when they're with other men?

[Reloaded]

I don't like approaching women when they are with other men. What should I do about this problem?

 

[Cod3r]

Options I've used in the past:

1. Approach the girl and ignore the guy, assume he's not there (could be dangerous if its his gf and he's bigger than you)

2. Approach the guy and ignore the girl, assume she's not there and get HIM to introduce you to the girl. This never fails, once you Out-Alpha the guy he'll try to make up for it by showing off the girl and inadvertantly giving you the 'in' you were waiting for... my favorite


-Cod3r

 

[Weak_Game]

careful who and how you approach... if a guy tries to out alpha me and approach me with my gf or with other girls im out... ive put them down quick and ive seen guys thrown down for less.. if another guy does this to me in a club, i wouldnt even hesitate to exhchange words its blatent disrespect to me and i would swing first then explain later... just be careful

 

[MightyMate]

I usually wait for situation when men is not there. Like when girl goes to toilet. I speak fast, tell i knoiw shes with somebody but i want her phone.

 

[Cod3r]

careful who and how you approach... if a guy tries to out alpha me and approach me with my gf or with other girls im out... ive put them down quick and ive seen guys thrown down for less.. if another guy does this to me in a club, i wouldnt even hesitate to exhchange words its blatent disrespect to me and i would swing first then explain later... just be careful

^ ^ ^ I've met guys like you before... I'd have you introducing me to your girl within 5 minutes haha, or of course I'd have to entertain the option that I'd be laying on my back, but with my experience and confidence I'm going with u introducing me to your girl


-Cod3r

 

[Dayum itz jee]

Say this to the girl "Is this your boyfriend?" and if she says yes say "If you want a ManFriend Give me a Call" and tell her your number...


BTW THIS IS A JOKE DONT DO IT UNLESS YOU ARE PRETTY SURE YOU CAN KNOCK THE GUY OUT!

 

[Reloaded]

Thanks for the help guys, I'll try to keep these in mind next time I find myself in that type of situation.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Cod, why write this?

1.Approach the girl and ignore the guy, assume he's not there (could be dangerous if its his gf and he's bigger than you)

2. Approach the guy and ignore the girl, assume she's not there and get HIM to introduce you to the girl. This never fails, once you Out-Alpha the guy he'll try to make up for it by showing off the girl and inadvertantly giving you the 'in' you were waiting for...

To the original poster, have you read my thread I just made? You guys are still "working for women." What's going to come of this situation? If he is a alpha male in any fashion, he'll know what the fvck you are doing, you think he's just going to take that disrespect? When you are laid out with fvcking acid thrown on your azz you'll get the point.

So what happens, you guys start fighting over a girl, she stands back and watches, knowing her "power" is still good. Read my thread, let a woman come up to you and your girl and try to take you and let them two fight.
Why would you want to put yourself in this situation?

If you tried to do that to me...first off, I would have my girl programmed to not even speak to you first off....secondly, I would kindly let you "approach me" then get you to come with us to some isolated spot. Then when we get there, have my boys beat the living fvck outta you. You tell me brotha, is it worth it?

 

[DonJuanForever]

Out of the 10 guys approaching a hb a week, only one gets in. Which one? The one with the masculinity. Guys that do what you guys are posting, are not masculine. For one, if you are so "good" if you see her with her man, why are you hell bent on getting into a fight just to get her. You guys think it's a game, as if you can "look" at somebody and determine if you can whoop his azz, lol, lol, lol. You don't know what the hell he's holding, nor, who the hell he's here with. Some guys will kill another dude over a girl, is it worth it? Why not just wait until she's alone you dumbazzes. While you're going out thinking you are Steve Austin, I bet you won't feel so don juan and suave laying in the hospital after that guy you thought was a bytch, jit-jitzu'ed your azz and broke your arm, your leg, and your neck.

And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.

You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah

 

[Reloaded]

You sound like an Alpha Male, I'll read your topic.

 

[Bigg Boss]

Say this to the girl "Is this your boyfriend?" and if she says yes say "If you want a ManFriend Give me a Call" and tell her your number...


BTW THIS IS A JOKE DONT DO IT UNLESS YOU ARE PRETTY SURE YOU CAN KNOCK THE GUY OUT!

That sounds crazy alpha, I really am trying to get my confidence up so I can be on this level. Hell yeah. Except the "If you want a Manfriend..." part. I know it's a joke. But yeah, as a DJ, I'll respect another kat's relationship or whatever so I prolly nod or somethin and be like "my fault partna" and make a good exit (don't want it to look awkward lol).

But if she says no and I be like "Well when you finish talkin to this kid, I need u to holla at me." And decide right there whether it's a situation where I need to give her my number or if there's time for her to get back @ me later that night.

 

[JezDuffield]

Out of the 10 guys approaching a hb a week, only one gets in. Which one? The one with the masculinity. Guys that do what you guys are posting, are not masculine. For one, if you are so "good" if you see her with her man, why are you hell bent on getting into a fight just to get her. You guys think it's a game, as if you can "look" at somebody and determine if you can whoop his azz, lol, lol, lol. You don't know what the hell he's holding, nor, who the hell he's here with. Some guys will kill another dude over a girl, is it worth it? Why not just wait until she's alone you dumbazzes. While you're going out thinking you are Steve Austin, I bet you won't feel so don juan and suave laying in the hospital after that guy you thought was a bytch, jit-jitzu'ed your azz and broke your arm, your leg, and your neck.

And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.

You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah

WHY ARE YOU SUCH A LOSER THAT YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO THINK THE WORST ABOUT EVERYONE, DID IT EVER ENTER YOUR THICK HEAD THAT THE GUYS WHO HAVE WRITTEN THESE POSTS MAY BE MUCH BETTER FIGHTERS THAN THE GUYS THAT THEY ARE UP AGAINST, GET A BRAIN. :trouble: :kick: :trouble:

 

[oakraiderz2]

Good lord, have some fvckin respect for people. Im pretty sure you would be pissed if some guy tried to take your girl with you right there. There's plenty of other girls that are single, dont be a chump.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Thanks for the help guys, I'll try to keep these in mind next time I find myself in that type of situation.

Listening to these lames are going to get you ur as z beat.

You have another post about you wanting to pretend to be a "bad boy," and I consider anyone who has to ask such a question should stick to non-bad boy ways, because you'll end up getting puched in your throat if you follow what these KBJ's tell you.

Leave other guys girls alone have a lil respect before someone teaches you about it.

You guys get more pathetic every fking day (all of you.)

 

[rocky_mtn]

Reloaded just posts cr@p.

Like the thread where he's applogizing to the moderators then posting more cr@p.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Reloaded just posts cr@p.

Like the thread where he's applogizing to the moderators then posting more cr@p.

He's not the REAL problems. The advice that these idiots pass as knowledge is the problem.

 

[Gary29]

Usually a good indicator of whether or not you should approach a girl with another guy is her body language. If she is leaning into him, looking enthusiastic and upbeat, etc, then she is most likely attracted to him and you're better staying off.

On the other hand, sometimes I'll see couples walking around and the girl looks bored, her body language is showing disinterest in the guy... Usually these same girls will hold eye contact with me if I catch their eye. If they hold eye contact with you for a good time, then the other guy is probably an AFC / you sparked her interest. This all usually happens when the other guy is looking away to a different direction.

At this point you'll both "know" that you want her and she wants you , so she's sorta even hoping that you'll approach her somehow someway.

Now the challenge is that even if she is interested in you, she would not usually be too keen on giving you her # right in front of the other guy, even if she is NOT interested in him (it's all about avoiding looking like a sl*t or easy, women will do this at all costs).

Your best bet? Catch her when the guy steps away or she walks off to somewhere else by herself. What if you got no choice and must talk to her with the guy there? Then AVOID asking them if they are in a relationship; don't say stuff like (Is this your brother/friend/boyfriend?). Just keep the focus of the attention off their connection/relation. Chat up the girl with a little fluff talk. Once in a while the guy might start talking, to him just say stuff like "hey are those Levis Jeans? Cool. I got the same ones!" Then turn back to the chick and continue talking. Don't make it look too seductive/romantic/sexual, but with the girl make it look like a "buddies connection." Here you're talking about similar interests, places to go to, things to do. Then just finish off with "hey look i gotta get going, gimme your # and we'll stay in touch" She'll prefer you not to lean too far into romantic communication because the other guy is there (trying not to be a sl*t thing, once again).

THen later on when you contact her when the other guy isn't there, you can kick your seduction up a notch :rockon:

If you do this routine right, she will "get" what's going on and so will you. Maybe even the other guy, but it will all be so subtle and smooth that the other guy cannot implicate anyone for anything without looking like an *******. And if he does, this makes him even more AFC, only making your odds better :yes:

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

^^^

Come on get real... Did you come up with this from your mom's basement?

So, a guy is suppose to sit back and listen to you fluff talk his girl, ask him about his jean, and then try to number close his chick??? Get Real!

I don't care how smooth your mother and her friends say you are- there's no way her BF will stand for this.

Try this around a real man and you are going to get shutdown in a heart beat: "Get the **** out of here."

Where do you fools come from??? WTF

 

[( . )( . )]

Good lord, have some fvckin respect for people. Im pretty sure you would be pissed if some guy tried to take your girl with you right there. There's plenty of other girls that are single, dont be a chump.

Wrong, if shes a 5-9 with a healthy social life shes gonna have some kind of c@ck around anyway (this is basic sh!t btw).

Just because another c@ck happens to be physically present in this instance doesnt make him a "chump" for not giving a fvck.

Try labelling guys "chumps" who actually deserve it.

 

[chickenlegs03]

I have a question. Rather than start a new thread I figured I would ask it here.

Say there's a girl working at a fast food place behind the register. You don't know her name but have flirted/joked before, and you frequent the place because the food is good.

Last time you were eyeing one of the girls there, the manager starts asking you about how you will spend your summer. Kind of like blocking you, but you're not positive about it.

So...you want to get this chick's name and number, but there's other guys that work there, and the manager guy.

I'm not afraid of the manager or anyone. I don't fear getting rejected. My problem is that I know that girls rarely toss up the number when they're around other guys or feel comfortable doing so...it's mostly something they would do when in a less crowded or alone situation. I'm asking, out of respect for her, and not being a selfish prick...So, how do you go about #closing...she's attracted, and so am I. Do you just try to catch her on break or something?