iseovodoia
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There so many hot girls that sit by themselves but I can't seem to build up the courage to approach
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to approach girls at college!
- Thread starter iseovodoia
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You won't die if you approach them. Just say something that suits the situations: ask where this class is or where library. It only gets easier after that. You won't care after nth approach. Remember only you determine your self-worth and if you get rejected, she's rejected your approach, not you as a person.
Read the DJ bible.
Read the DJ bible.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Wondering what if for DAYS is much worst than the very brief ego kick you'll get from rejection. Kill your ego, that is the key to eliminating approach anxiety, deltabeta gives you one way and that is to separate yourself from your actions... this has the added benefit of being able to look outside in and see what approach methods are working and what don't. Think of it as an experiment, take notes just start getting to work.
Tictac
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They sit by themselves because nearly every guy thinks just like you do.
They rarely bite and are almost never poisonous to taste. And they are tired of wimps that don't have the balls to just go talk to them like a real human being.
Just go ask one her name. If she asks you yours, go from there.
They rarely bite and are almost never poisonous to taste. And they are tired of wimps that don't have the balls to just go talk to them like a real human being.
Just go ask one her name. If she asks you yours, go from there.
I promise you that approaching'll never be easier than it is in college--especially if you live on campus. But even if you don't you're not really 'strangers.' Basically my strategy my first semester at the two different schools I went to was to introduce myself to as many people as possible and then to introduce those people to other people.
If you're college is huge on Greek life, the bar scene, etc. it'll be tougher--but even then there are tons of people there who wish they had a bigger social circle but are too insecure to expand beyond whatever small clique they settled into.
If you're college is huge on Greek life, the bar scene, etc. it'll be tougher--but even then there are tons of people there who wish they had a bigger social circle but are too insecure to expand beyond whatever small clique they settled into.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
The longer you think about it , the more excuses you will find why you should not approach.
Read the dj bible.
Read the dj bible.
