iseovodoia
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There so many hot girls that sit by themselves but I can't seem to build up the courage to approach
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to approach girls at college!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You won't die if you approach them. Just say something that suits the situations: ask where this class is or where library. It only gets easier after that. You won't care after nth approach. Remember only you determine your self-worth and if you get rejected, she's rejected your approach, not you as a person.
Read the DJ bible.
Read the DJ bible.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Wondering what if for DAYS is much worst than the very brief ego kick you'll get from rejection. Kill your ego, that is the key to eliminating approach anxiety, deltabeta gives you one way and that is to separate yourself from your actions... this has the added benefit of being able to look outside in and see what approach methods are working and what don't. Think of it as an experiment, take notes just start getting to work.
Tictac
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They sit by themselves because nearly every guy thinks just like you do.
They rarely bite and are almost never poisonous to taste. And they are tired of wimps that don't have the balls to just go talk to them like a real human being.
Just go ask one her name. If she asks you yours, go from there.
They rarely bite and are almost never poisonous to taste. And they are tired of wimps that don't have the balls to just go talk to them like a real human being.
Just go ask one her name. If she asks you yours, go from there.
I promise you that approaching'll never be easier than it is in college--especially if you live on campus. But even if you don't you're not really 'strangers.' Basically my strategy my first semester at the two different schools I went to was to introduce myself to as many people as possible and then to introduce those people to other people.
If you're college is huge on Greek life, the bar scene, etc. it'll be tougher--but even then there are tons of people there who wish they had a bigger social circle but are too insecure to expand beyond whatever small clique they settled into.
If you're college is huge on Greek life, the bar scene, etc. it'll be tougher--but even then there are tons of people there who wish they had a bigger social circle but are too insecure to expand beyond whatever small clique they settled into.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
The longer you think about it , the more excuses you will find why you should not approach.
Read the dj bible.
Read the dj bible.
