"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to approach and what to say?

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I go to this techinical institute where theres 11th and 12th grades and at lunch theres only about 20 people and not everyone knows anyone else, so theres a few people who eat by their selves(including this hb) Should I just sit right beside her and start talking? If so what are some things I can say? And what do I do if I run out of things to say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd say,

"Why're you over here by yourself?"

Thats the intro.

Then you just use the environment for topics.
 
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When you run out of things to say, get her phone number and walk off.
 
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OMG. I spent 15 minutes thinknig of this situation and I think I got it!

Walk over there, sit down and say......























Hi.
 
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sit next to her a talk, jesus, she's not going to report you to the rape police........If you run out of things to talk about, don't talk.......leave, as long as you said something.......


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!grow some balls!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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