"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to approach and what to say?

southpark

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I go to this techinical institute where theres 11th and 12th grades and at lunch theres only about 20 people and not everyone knows anyone else, so theres a few people who eat by their selves(including this hb) Should I just sit right beside her and start talking? If so what are some things I can say? And what do I do if I run out of things to say?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Black Casanova

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I'd say,

"Why're you over here by yourself?"

Thats the intro.

Then you just use the environment for topics.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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When you run out of things to say, get her phone number and walk off.
 

LikRetsam

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OMG. I spent 15 minutes thinknig of this situation and I think I got it!

Walk over there, sit down and say......























Hi.
 

jonny football hero

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sit next to her a talk, jesus, she's not going to report you to the rape police........If you run out of things to talk about, don't talk.......leave, as long as you said something.......


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!grow some balls!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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