"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to approach and what to say?

southpark

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I go to this techinical institute where theres 11th and 12th grades and at lunch theres only about 20 people and not everyone knows anyone else, so theres a few people who eat by their selves(including this hb) Should I just sit right beside her and start talking? If so what are some things I can say? And what do I do if I run out of things to say?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Black Casanova

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I'd say,

"Why're you over here by yourself?"

Thats the intro.

Then you just use the environment for topics.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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When you run out of things to say, get her phone number and walk off.
 

LikRetsam

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OMG. I spent 15 minutes thinknig of this situation and I think I got it!

Walk over there, sit down and say......























Hi.
 

jonny football hero

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sit next to her a talk, jesus, she's not going to report you to the rape police........If you run out of things to talk about, don't talk.......leave, as long as you said something.......


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!grow some balls!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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