The biggest problem I see with today's crop of 20-30yo men doesn't have anything to do with the government, boomers, or mediocre restaurants that greedy bastards run.
As you said, "the average man offers nothing of value to women outside a penis and provide and protect at best.
An average guy can't expect the results of someone that is above average. Just how it is. Work on improving your situation if you don't like it. This forum will teach you everything you need to know to be above average. It just won't do the work for you.
I know a guy who is 35 years old smokes weed, and plays video games every day, he didn't have a job for 6 months and he lived with his parents to boot. The guy was complaining about women being to "flakey" mmmh 2+2=? lmfaoooo. Long story short he got a job, a fat girlfriend who ended up kicking him out in less than 3 months he's now living back with his parents. I think the obvious doesn't need to be stated
On the flip side, I'm mentoring a 25-year-old accountant(who works as a waiter on weekends for extra cash) he makes 6 figures. He is in good shape, dresses like a model (no diddy)Has a rotation of hot girls. He doesn't lead with his wallet heck a lot of girls don't know he has money until they go to his place. Even if he didn't he still wouldn't have a problem pulling.
However, from these 2 stories you see the difference in mindsets and why one guy is successful with women and the other isn't. Let me be clear I'm not saying you gotta make 6 figures to pull hot chicks, but what I am saying is if you're ambitious it goes a lot further than being a bum in this mating climate
It's like 5% of the reason things are so bad
If every man started approaching almost nothing would change
The issue is feminism, fundamentally
Feminism is a symptom of the problem the real problem is the people that put feminism in place! the politicians who wanted women in the workplace so they could get more tax money! cause the government needed more money to keep their endeavors going especially after World War 2. Women entered the workforce, wages overtime went down, your spending power went down but taxes went up! Don't believe me do your own research on this topic
Social programs went into hyperdrive in the 70s/'80s/90s and how taxes have increased in the last 60 years. It blows my mind how Redpill guys don't see that there was/is a bigger picture at play than feminism.
It's about Money!!! I could go deeper into it but if you think feminism is the main issue
you have to ask yourself. Who benefits the most from feminism? not the women, the government does! (once again do your research if you don't believe me you won't find this type of information on a red pill podcast where they talk about "The Wall" and "Hypergamy" for the 50,000th time)
Then raise your value. Most men don't even come close to their potential then whine about why it's so hard.
How many are in peak physical condition? Under 10% most likely, probably more like 5%.
How many have their life and career together? Again, probably not more than 20% of the dating market.
How many are able to hold conversations and aren't boring like watching paint dry? Not very many again.
Men are literally competing against losers and dudes who are lame, boring or socially inept for the most part.
If they are struggling then it's likely they are part of that group.
Too many guys think they can just do whatever and it should lead to success but success with women is like success with anything else. Your options are directly correlated to what version of you, you have become.
Totally agree, it's easier to get laid in 2024 than in 2004. I remember women would make you wait 4 dates or make you wait until you are official. Due to hookup culture
now you don't have to even take a girl on a date to get laid. I got a buddy who hasn't gone on a date in 2 years he gets laid regularly. Heck, I have had girls come straight to my place as well. However, I prefer to meet in public first to see how we vibe.
I'm not glroying it but it's easier to get laid now than ever. Every guy has different experiences but a lot of men are ok with being subpar which is crazy to me.
The number of men whining in comment sections on youtube red pill podcast, forums like Reddit(even on here) etc. A lot of men have become weak, lack perservance, and HAVE BECOME JUST LIKE THE WOMEN THEY WHINE AND COMPLAIN ABOUT!
Don't believe me? back in 2004 only losers would have paid for onlyans there is no way Onlyfans would be a thing. Yes webcam girls existed but guys actually had pride and would be embarrassed, men had pride and Someone would have shamed you for that loser activity! now you have men bragging openly paying for Onlyfans. The delusion and entitlement of modern men is cringeworthy and at times is at the same level as modern women! It's truly sad when you watch a youtube livestream and guys are brazenly bragging about paying for hookers. In 2004 as a 20-year-old that never crossed my mind why? we were to broke so we hit the field! We had pride, yes we got rejected a lot but that was part of becoming better. We understood you had to grind. Modern men now have no perseverance that's why so many men are lazy and living with their parents in their late 20s or 30s. When I was 21 I got kicked out of my house, I didn't have mommy and Daddy to save me. 2 years later it was the 08 recession I worked 2 jobs. Sometimes 24 hours straight (3:30-11pm, 11:30-7 then 8:00-4:30) I had to grind and fast forward now I'm hopefully within 2 years of retiring before 43!
I dont say this to brag but I say this to say no one was gonna save my a$$ and it was by God's grace that I'm here today. So I can't even take the credit but I certainly had to put in the work!
Now men are hitting up Onlyfans or messaging hookers.
In human history there always have been 60%-70% of men who never got to procreate, for guys who are complaining now just wait until 2030 than you really gonna cry waaah waaah waaah
