“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how strong if an IOI is it when someone mirrors you?

jvick

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lately ive been spending more time watching peoples' body language, posture, and just how they carry themselves. probably the biggest surprise was i noticed a fairly hot coworker mirroring me. for about an hour we had to sit at this big table and listen to a presentation(she was right next to me). anyway id change how i was sitting in the chair and how my arms were and she would follow suit, usually within seconds. ive had people mirror me other time, but never seen it this strongly. weather i just didnt pick up on it or what im not really sure.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't know if I would look that far into it man. I get all the IOIs I need by watching a woman's eyes and facial expression. Her "mirroring" you could just be something subconscious that doesn't necessarily mean shes attracted.
 

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Well mirroring, when it comes to women, 99% of the time is a good thing if you're looking to make a move. If anything I would look at it as her being open to your advances. It's subtle but it's there. You should act in kind. If it were any other location (not work), like school, I would recommend opening with some basic convo, etc.

I wouldn't recommend that here though because she's your coworker... That's another topic however.
 
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