lately ive been spending more time watching peoples' body language, posture, and just how they carry themselves. probably the biggest surprise was i noticed a fairly hot coworker mirroring me. for about an hour we had to sit at this big table and listen to a presentation(she was right next to me). anyway id change how i was sitting in the chair and how my arms were and she would follow suit, usually within seconds. ive had people mirror me other time, but never seen it this strongly. weather i just didnt pick up on it or what im not really sure.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how strong if an IOI is it when someone mirrors you?
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