AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
This sexy ass chick caught my eye a while back but she has a man. They broke up yesterday. I have tickets to the game. Too soon?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How soon after she breaks up with the ex can I ask her out?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It depends if the feeling is mutual. If so im inclined to say it is not too soon. Either way theres nothing wrong with two friends going to the game, she probably will welcome the distraction if shes at all upset. Either shes busy or she says yes so go for it.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Most definitely. She's a nine and I see her in class three times a week. She wears yoga pants every day. Wouldn't mind sleeping with her at all.Suspens said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DragonBlood
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I say go for it. The main concern is the amount of money and thought put into it. But its pretty obvious you didnt plan out buying these tickets just to invite her. Who was the other ticket originally bought for?AllDay85 said:
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I bought them from season ticket holder friend, with intention of bringing any random woman I saw fit.DragonBlood said: