AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
This sexy ass chick caught my eye a while back but she has a man. They broke up yesterday. I have tickets to the game. Too soon?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How soon after she breaks up with the ex can I ask her out?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It depends if the feeling is mutual. If so im inclined to say it is not too soon. Either way theres nothing wrong with two friends going to the game, she probably will welcome the distraction if shes at all upset. Either shes busy or she says yes so go for it.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Most definitely. She's a nine and I see her in class three times a week. She wears yoga pants every day. Wouldn't mind sleeping with her at all.Suspens said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DragonBlood
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I say go for it. The main concern is the amount of money and thought put into it. But its pretty obvious you didnt plan out buying these tickets just to invite her. Who was the other ticket originally bought for?AllDay85 said:
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I bought them from season ticket holder friend, with intention of bringing any random woman I saw fit.DragonBlood said: