AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
This sexy ass chick caught my eye a while back but she has a man. They broke up yesterday. I have tickets to the game. Too soon?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How soon after she breaks up with the ex can I ask her out?
- Thread starter AllDay85
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It depends if the feeling is mutual. If so im inclined to say it is not too soon. Either way theres nothing wrong with two friends going to the game, she probably will welcome the distraction if shes at all upset. Either shes busy or she says yes so go for it.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Most definitely. She's a nine and I see her in class three times a week. She wears yoga pants every day. Wouldn't mind sleeping with her at all.Suspens said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
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I say go for it. The main concern is the amount of money and thought put into it. But its pretty obvious you didnt plan out buying these tickets just to invite her. Who was the other ticket originally bought for?AllDay85 said:
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I bought them from season ticket holder friend, with intention of bringing any random woman I saw fit.DragonBlood said: