AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
This sexy ass chick caught my eye a while back but she has a man. They broke up yesterday. I have tickets to the game. Too soon?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How soon after she breaks up with the ex can I ask her out?
- Thread starter AllDay85
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It depends if the feeling is mutual. If so im inclined to say it is not too soon. Either way theres nothing wrong with two friends going to the game, she probably will welcome the distraction if shes at all upset. Either shes busy or she says yes so go for it.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Most definitely. She's a nine and I see her in class three times a week. She wears yoga pants every day. Wouldn't mind sleeping with her at all.Suspens said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DragonBlood
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I say go for it. The main concern is the amount of money and thought put into it. But its pretty obvious you didnt plan out buying these tickets just to invite her. Who was the other ticket originally bought for?AllDay85 said:
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I bought them from season ticket holder friend, with intention of bringing any random woman I saw fit.DragonBlood said: