"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how should i respond to this?

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Ok met some girl off plentyoffish the other day! things went fine and we are meeting up again tmrw!

she msgs me today saying "i assume you still talk to other people on pof still don't you?"

I reply back with "yes sure i talk to everyone on it"

she then msgs back with "No, its totally fine....so do i. It's just that there is someone who talks a lot and i can relate to like i do with you and i just wanted to make sure you were in the same situation and fine with it. Don't like lieing to people or leading them on."

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She just sent another text saying "No better than i get onw ith you.... never met them or anything. I know you better. So, do i take it that it would bother you?"
 
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I wouldn't even reply to it. Just meet up with her and act as if the conversation never even happened.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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RSanders219 said:
I wouldn't even reply to it. Just meet up with her and act as if the conversation never even happened.
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im pretty sure she will ask in person!
 
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really not a difficult one, she's just laying it out honestly. No need for games or fancy words, thank her for that honestly and proceed to show her what a great person you are.

that's what I would do, imo women at times feel undervalued/not taken seriously. it's a breath of fresh air for them to have someone affirm what they've said esp if they're not bsing with mind games.
 
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reply "it's all good, let's just keep having fun and take it step by step"

aloof and cryptic blow off.
 
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I didn't reply! and she called me to ask if im pissed at her? I basically said nah thanks for being honest..talk to whoever you want im not the jealous type! she then said are we ok for tmrw and i said "yeah it should be lots of fun."

think i said the right stuff? lol Im more bothered not regarding this chick but for future encounters with the same situation. If she wants to go with an afc then thats her choice but also her loss!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well ok I went on the date with her tonight! We went for a meal...everything went fine, she paid etc! then we got to a club danced abit, went for a kiss after lots of iois and she backed off and gave me a peck! we then left club and i offered to go out sat...she then said she can't shes doing something else on saturday....then 5 mins later she started crying and said she is seeing another guy on sat!

Basically she wants to casually date a few guys and see what happens....she also said that shes never had a proper relationship! (shes 23) any of you guys met a girl like this before? isn't it a bit weird the way shes acting?
 
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Honest and pays for dates! Sounds like a keeper with a side of nutty. Danny, this may be the best catch I've heard in a while or the best horror story you eventually will have to share around a campfire. Honestly, to cry on the first date..
 
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DannyM said:
Well ok I went on the date with her tonight! We went for a meal...everything went fine, she paid etc! then we got to a club danced abit, went for a kiss after lots of iois and she backed off and gave me a peck! we then left club and i offered to go out sat...she then said she can't shes doing something else on saturday....then 5 mins later she started crying and said she is seeing another guy on sat!

Basically she wants to casually date a few guys and see what happens....she also said that shes never had a proper relationship! (shes 23) any of you guys met a girl like this before? isn't it a bit weird the way shes acting?
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You're gonna open pandora's box soon, my friend. My guess is that you won't like what's gonna come out.
 
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DannyM said:
Well ok I went on the date with her tonight! We went for a meal...everything went fine, she paid etc! then we got to a club danced abit, went for a kiss after lots of iois and she backed off and gave me a peck! we then left club and i offered to go out sat...she then said she can't shes doing something else on saturday....then 5 mins later she started crying and said she is seeing another guy on sat!

Basically she wants to casually date a few guys and see what happens....she also said that shes never had a proper relationship! (shes 23) any of you guys met a girl like this before? isn't it a bit weird the way shes acting?
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Yeah... I have no idea what's she's doing, but there's definitely crazy in her. It's for you to find out if it's fun crazy or just crazy crazy. Good luck with that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EvilAgenda said:
Let her.


P.S. I'm curious. Why did you let her pay for you? Is that what you meant by saying "she paid"?
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Yeah, she pretty much just walked up and paid the bill when i went to toilet, i offered to pay my half but she said it was ok. This girl is puzzling me more than any before lol.
 
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