Hey everyone, needing a little advice with this girl I'm interested in. Just to give a quick run down we started talking about 2 months ago and have seen each other 3 times. I kissed her the last time after we had dinner. I recently invited her over in which her response was I'd love to but( and proceeded to give a legitimate reason) I wished her well and she responded positively. However, it's been 4 days since we've last spoke. I was trying to hold out and let her initiate since I invited her over last and didn't want to come across as needy or something. I have a hard time getting a read on her at times or if she's into me or not but I believe part of that is due to her getting out of a relationship recently. Anyways, should I hit her up or just hold out until she reaches out?
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How should I proceed?
- Thread starter ogsatori
- Start date
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Master Don Juan
Dont try to find excuse for her being unclear about her interest.
It does not mattet if she got out of a relationship. Its usually a sign of low interest
I agree with glassguy but i would give her a bit more time to reach out.
2week +.