“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ogsatori

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Hey everyone, needing a little advice with this girl I'm interested in. Just to give a quick run down we started talking about 2 months ago and have seen each other 3 times. I kissed her the last time after we had dinner. I recently invited her over in which her response was I'd love to but( and proceeded to give a legitimate reason) I wished her well and she responded positively. However, it's been 4 days since we've last spoke. I was trying to hold out and let her initiate since I invited her over last and didn't want to come across as needy or something. I have a hard time getting a read on her at times or if she's into me or not but I believe part of that is due to her getting out of a relationship recently. Anyways, should I hit her up or just hold out until she reaches out?
 

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"I'm free Thursday evening. Grab a bottle of wine and come over at 8".

Its either a yes or something else. Anything besides a yes and you dont text her again.
 

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Hey everyone, needing a little advice with this girl I'm interested in. Just to give a quick run down we started talking about 2 months ago and have seen each other 3 times. I kissed her the last time after we had dinner. I recently invited her over in which her response was I'd love to but( and proceeded to give a legitimate reason) I wished her well and she responded positively. However, it's been 4 days since we've last spoke. I was trying to hold out and let her initiate since I invited her over last and didn't want to come across as needy or something. I have a hard time getting a read on her at times or if she's into me or not but I believe part of that is due to her getting out of a relationship recently. Anyways, should I hit her up or just hold out until she reaches out?
Dont try to find excuse for her being unclear about her interest.
It does not mattet if she got out of a relationship. Its usually a sign of low interest
I agree with glassguy but i would give her a bit more time to reach out.
2week +.
 
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