Hey everyone, needing a little advice with this girl I'm interested in. Just to give a quick run down we started talking about 2 months ago and have seen each other 3 times. I kissed her the last time after we had dinner. I recently invited her over in which her response was I'd love to but( and proceeded to give a legitimate reason) I wished her well and she responded positively. However, it's been 4 days since we've last spoke. I was trying to hold out and let her initiate since I invited her over last and didn't want to come across as needy or something. I have a hard time getting a read on her at times or if she's into me or not but I believe part of that is due to her getting out of a relationship recently. Anyways, should I hit her up or just hold out until she reaches out?
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
How should I proceed?
- Thread starter ogsatori
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Dont try to find excuse for her being unclear about her interest.
It does not mattet if she got out of a relationship. Its usually a sign of low interest
I agree with glassguy but i would give her a bit more time to reach out.
2week +.