"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How sexually suggestive are you when flirting with a girl?

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Ok lets say you know for sure a girl likes you, how sexually suggestive are you when you talk to her? Like give examples.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VERY suggestive, old Or young. I've had women talking to their husbands, in a, fake-love kinda way or tone, on the phone while I'm standing there in front of her, to give Me the message that she would be willing to cheat with me. I Always say things to a woman that are so vague and then leave them for the next time I see them and it builds. Their imaginations build the best or the worst. It's up to them. I'm just an agent of change who walks through many corridors.
 
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after she reveals something about her personality that you find attractive, feel free to state your intent. tell her you find it sexy that she's so compassionate (if she's a nurse and loves her job) or something along those lines. If she keeps talking to you after that, all is good. you're in business.
 
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You don't have to be sexually flirtatious - she knows why you are talking to her - just ask for a number or ask her to meet you for an encounter!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
You don't have to be sexually flirtatious - she knows why you are talking to her - just ask for a number or ask her to meet you for an encounter!
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I'm talking more about a girl you know through a friend, not a cold approach or anything.
 

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It's hard to explain the exact attitude, but it's kinda like I treat them like we've ALREADY f*cked, or that I just KNOW we will (or that I know that SHE knows we will), or something in between, or sorta like that.

It's mostly unspoken, but if the situation or conversation goes there, I just act cool about it all, maybe throwing in some stuff that would sound right if we HAD already been together.

This is powerful, and actually seems to put them more at ease (sounds counterintuitive, but it's true.)

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TT2CiN said:
I'm talking more about a girl you know through a friend, not a cold approach or anything.
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My advice is the same!

You know she likes you - so what is/why your hesitation? Lack of confidence!
 
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Her liking you and her wanting to screw you are too different things. I've had several girls like me but I didn't have sex with any of them. Heck I had just had a date with a girl and I don't know how far she wants to go with me yet. My flirting wasn't that suggestive besides the constant light kino. You need to lightly let your intention known and I think I may have been a little too light.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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LOL that thing is way too long to read this late at night.

Does it basically mean that when a man approaches a woman and makes a date with her, that the woman knows what the man wants?

Or do some women get the mistaken idea that the man is looking for a new friend?
 
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Maxtro, read it tomorrow - if you wish to gain understanding of the reality of the inborn characteristics of the male/female dynamic!! It is too involved to sum-up in one sentence!!
 
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TT2CiN said:
Ok lets say you know for sure a girl likes you, how sexually suggestive are you when you talk to her? Like give examples.
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im not sexual with women at all at first its disrespectful and they dont like it
 
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Greengrass said:
im not sexual with women at all at first its disrespectful and they dont like it
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Oh, boy........

Hey, Greengrass: open your eyes, free your mind.

Really.
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I've heard once you slap your dik across her face, she'll know what you want. :rolleyes:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mayfly said:
I've heard once you slap your dik across her face, she'll know what you want. :rolleyes:
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I tried this last night and it worked pretty good.
 
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I tend to stick it in her ear. Maybe up her nose. If I really like her I mite jus slap it on her forehead for awhile. If she doesnt wanna do anything after that then I just ''NEXT'' her cause she obivously playing me for a fool and these ho's don't mean nothing to me cause im hot rite now.
 
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I just pull it out and walk around my neighborhood. Works every time.
 
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