"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How sexually suggestive are you when flirting with a girl?

TT2CiN

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Ok lets say you know for sure a girl likes you, how sexually suggestive are you when you talk to her? Like give examples.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VERY suggestive, old Or young. I've had women talking to their husbands, in a, fake-love kinda way or tone, on the phone while I'm standing there in front of her, to give Me the message that she would be willing to cheat with me. I Always say things to a woman that are so vague and then leave them for the next time I see them and it builds. Their imaginations build the best or the worst. It's up to them. I'm just an agent of change who walks through many corridors.
 

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after she reveals something about her personality that you find attractive, feel free to state your intent. tell her you find it sexy that she's so compassionate (if she's a nurse and loves her job) or something along those lines. If she keeps talking to you after that, all is good. you're in business.
 
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You don't have to be sexually flirtatious - she knows why you are talking to her - just ask for a number or ask her to meet you for an encounter!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
You don't have to be sexually flirtatious - she knows why you are talking to her - just ask for a number or ask her to meet you for an encounter!
I'm talking more about a girl you know through a friend, not a cold approach or anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's hard to explain the exact attitude, but it's kinda like I treat them like we've ALREADY f*cked, or that I just KNOW we will (or that I know that SHE knows we will), or something in between, or sorta like that.

It's mostly unspoken, but if the situation or conversation goes there, I just act cool about it all, maybe throwing in some stuff that would sound right if we HAD already been together.

This is powerful, and actually seems to put them more at ease (sounds counterintuitive, but it's true.)

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TT2CiN said:
I'm talking more about a girl you know through a friend, not a cold approach or anything.
My advice is the same!

You know she likes you - so what is/why your hesitation? Lack of confidence!
 

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Her liking you and her wanting to screw you are too different things. I've had several girls like me but I didn't have sex with any of them. Heck I had just had a date with a girl and I don't know how far she wants to go with me yet. My flirting wasn't that suggestive besides the constant light kino. You need to lightly let your intention known and I think I may have been a little too light.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LOL that thing is way too long to read this late at night.

Does it basically mean that when a man approaches a woman and makes a date with her, that the woman knows what the man wants?

Or do some women get the mistaken idea that the man is looking for a new friend?
 
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Maxtro, read it tomorrow - if you wish to gain understanding of the reality of the inborn characteristics of the male/female dynamic!! It is too involved to sum-up in one sentence!!
 

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TT2CiN said:
Ok lets say you know for sure a girl likes you, how sexually suggestive are you when you talk to her? Like give examples.
im not sexual with women at all at first its disrespectful and they dont like it
 

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Greengrass said:
im not sexual with women at all at first its disrespectful and they dont like it

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Oh, boy........

Hey, Greengrass: open your eyes, free your mind.

Really.
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I've heard once you slap your dik across her face, she'll know what you want. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mayfly said:
I've heard once you slap your dik across her face, she'll know what you want. :rolleyes:

I tried this last night and it worked pretty good.
 
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I tend to stick it in her ear. Maybe up her nose. If I really like her I mite jus slap it on her forehead for awhile. If she doesnt wanna do anything after that then I just ''NEXT'' her cause she obivously playing me for a fool and these ho's don't mean nothing to me cause im hot rite now.
 
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I just pull it out and walk around my neighborhood. Works every time.
 
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