"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How sexually suggestive are you when flirting with a girl?

TT2CiN

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Ok lets say you know for sure a girl likes you, how sexually suggestive are you when you talk to her? Like give examples.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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VERY suggestive, old Or young. I've had women talking to their husbands, in a, fake-love kinda way or tone, on the phone while I'm standing there in front of her, to give Me the message that she would be willing to cheat with me. I Always say things to a woman that are so vague and then leave them for the next time I see them and it builds. Their imaginations build the best or the worst. It's up to them. I'm just an agent of change who walks through many corridors.
 

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after she reveals something about her personality that you find attractive, feel free to state your intent. tell her you find it sexy that she's so compassionate (if she's a nurse and loves her job) or something along those lines. If she keeps talking to you after that, all is good. you're in business.
 
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You don't have to be sexually flirtatious - she knows why you are talking to her - just ask for a number or ask her to meet you for an encounter!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
You don't have to be sexually flirtatious - she knows why you are talking to her - just ask for a number or ask her to meet you for an encounter!
I'm talking more about a girl you know through a friend, not a cold approach or anything.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's hard to explain the exact attitude, but it's kinda like I treat them like we've ALREADY f*cked, or that I just KNOW we will (or that I know that SHE knows we will), or something in between, or sorta like that.

It's mostly unspoken, but if the situation or conversation goes there, I just act cool about it all, maybe throwing in some stuff that would sound right if we HAD already been together.

This is powerful, and actually seems to put them more at ease (sounds counterintuitive, but it's true.)

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TT2CiN said:
I'm talking more about a girl you know through a friend, not a cold approach or anything.
My advice is the same!

You know she likes you - so what is/why your hesitation? Lack of confidence!
 

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Her liking you and her wanting to screw you are too different things. I've had several girls like me but I didn't have sex with any of them. Heck I had just had a date with a girl and I don't know how far she wants to go with me yet. My flirting wasn't that suggestive besides the constant light kino. You need to lightly let your intention known and I think I may have been a little too light.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL that thing is way too long to read this late at night.

Does it basically mean that when a man approaches a woman and makes a date with her, that the woman knows what the man wants?

Or do some women get the mistaken idea that the man is looking for a new friend?
 
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Maxtro, read it tomorrow - if you wish to gain understanding of the reality of the inborn characteristics of the male/female dynamic!! It is too involved to sum-up in one sentence!!
 

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TT2CiN said:
Ok lets say you know for sure a girl likes you, how sexually suggestive are you when you talk to her? Like give examples.
im not sexual with women at all at first its disrespectful and they dont like it
 

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Greengrass said:
im not sexual with women at all at first its disrespectful and they dont like it

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Oh, boy........

Hey, Greengrass: open your eyes, free your mind.

Really.
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I've heard once you slap your dik across her face, she'll know what you want. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mayfly said:
I've heard once you slap your dik across her face, she'll know what you want. :rolleyes:

I tried this last night and it worked pretty good.
 
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I tend to stick it in her ear. Maybe up her nose. If I really like her I mite jus slap it on her forehead for awhile. If she doesnt wanna do anything after that then I just ''NEXT'' her cause she obivously playing me for a fool and these ho's don't mean nothing to me cause im hot rite now.
 
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I just pull it out and walk around my neighborhood. Works every time.
 
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