How often should we hang out?

[Na7anael]

So I went out on a first date with this girl last Thursday, we ate for an hour, very great time, then I took her out, stopped by the river in my car and we kissed and had a great time for an hour straight so it's clearly more than just friendship.
Now idk how often I should call her out and not seem too interested or desperate?

I'm not a beginner in this domain as had many many dates but I'd like to hear other people's opinions, ty

 

[nicksaiz65]

I believe AMS and Corey Wayne said a general guideline was hanging out with her once a week

 

[Na7anael]

That's the kind of answer I expected to get on here.

I believe AMS and Corey Wayne said a general guideline was hanging out with her once a week

Link?

 

[backseatjuan]

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0it1cu-mt_IcvLTQ4CWcHw/videos
https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne/videos

Now a little kick in your butt. Great time I believe you did not have sex. So why call it great time. There is still a chance she won't give it to you next week, so why bs yourself over it. You don't seem to be confident in your own sh1t, confidence will not come to you over bluetooth or wifi, you gotta take risks and fvck up. Of course, you are standing on the shoulders of giants, and it will help you. But do not expect this one particular girl to be that one particular girl. Never settle for just one girl.

 

[nicksaiz65]

That's the kind of answer I expected to get on here.


Link?

Not one specific video but you may as well watch all their stuff. You’ll learn a lot of Game

 

[Tilex]

Nothing is set in stone until you two have sex. That's the bottom line.
Everything that happens before sex is nothing but sh!t testing and game playing.
You can't take anything she says seriously until she's willing to get butt naked for you.

 

[marmel75]

Ask yourself one question. And be brutally honest with yourself.

Are you desperate?

Be honest.

If the answer is a very decisive no, then you can get in touch/see her whenever the hell you want to.

Desperation is not a time limit. It is a behavior. When the PUA community drills time-limits on interactions with a woman, they are generally providing you with artificial boundaries to curb any existing desperate behavior and tendencies.

The exception is to give a woman enough space to miss you. This is different than curbing desperation. It is simply to prevent smothering someone, even when all is good.

If you’re not desperate and you haven’t seen her for a few days, it’s not going to kill you to simply offer an invite out with you this weekend.

This times 1000! People dont understand that actions and the place they come from in a person are what determine if they are desperate NOT the action in and of itself...

 

[Trump]

Nothing is set in stone until you two have sex. That's the bottom line.
Everything that happens before sex is nothing but sh!t testing and game playing.
You can't take anything she says seriously until she's willing to get butt naked for you.

I’ll take her more seriously if she’s willing to invest in me. Any guy can easily get sex in North America 2019. Just drop some coin or flatter her a little bit.

A woman’s commitment, investment, love and time? Much much harder.

 

[Na7anael]

I think you badly misunderstand me, I ain't no 'Don Juan' but I know what I'm doing and do it with confidence every time, I still need to learn and understand

This times 1000! People dont understand that actions and the place they come from in a person are what determine if they are desperate NOT the action in and of itself...

this, any more info on this will be highly appreciated

On another note it feels bad that you call sex a relationship, I don't want any more advice from you thanks, I did not want to have sex with her that night, if I wanted I would've easily taken her to my place. That's not the point here. I know you will see this as the problem that I'm having but I can assure you it's not