"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How NOT to do street approaches (video)

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3NO-20-W_I&feature=related

Supreme would get a heart attack seeing that.

However if everyone on this board had balls like that guy we wouldn't have so many virgins here. That's the only good thing I can say about that guy.

This guy could approach 1000s of women and he wouldn't get laid by a hottie.

Notice his horrible body language?

Notice how he scares them off by suddenly jumping in front of them?

We don't even need to talk about his clothing style now do we?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't underestimate a man who has the balls to do that many cold approaches.

Body language and style are easy to fix. He has the raw potential to be a monster.
 

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that is the thing about absolute raw brutal courage, with zero game. you start out looking like a retard, but you are super focused on pulling AZZ, merely doing the approaches will give you confidence, which will increase your attractiveness, which will give you more success, which will increase your attractiveness, and before you know it, BAM you are a natural.

If one merely had the courage to boldly plow through life uninhibited, the resulting success in all areas would be unimaginable.
 

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this guy's retarded.
Jumping in front of people like that like a clown, jeez.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
 

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What a fvcking disaster.
 

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Bonafide said:
So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
Are you serious?

Hair touching doesn't mean sh!t. Girls do it all the time when they talk to guys.

The one girl touched him to push him out of the way because he was creeping her out...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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He's still probably better than most of the people here at cold approaching :p

I'm not gonna bag him because he is out there trying.
 

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this thread would be useful if someone actually posted a cold approaching video as good example in contrast to the first vid. Only showing a bad video is not very productive at all at imporoving our skills.
 
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