"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How NOT to do street approaches (video)

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3NO-20-W_I&feature=related

Supreme would get a heart attack seeing that.

However if everyone on this board had balls like that guy we wouldn't have so many virgins here. That's the only good thing I can say about that guy.

This guy could approach 1000s of women and he wouldn't get laid by a hottie.

Notice his horrible body language?

Notice how he scares them off by suddenly jumping in front of them?

We don't even need to talk about his clothing style now do we?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't underestimate a man who has the balls to do that many cold approaches.

Body language and style are easy to fix. He has the raw potential to be a monster.
 
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that is the thing about absolute raw brutal courage, with zero game. you start out looking like a retard, but you are super focused on pulling AZZ, merely doing the approaches will give you confidence, which will increase your attractiveness, which will give you more success, which will increase your attractiveness, and before you know it, BAM you are a natural.

If one merely had the courage to boldly plow through life uninhibited, the resulting success in all areas would be unimaginable.
 
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this guy's retarded.
Jumping in front of people like that like a clown, jeez.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
 
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What a fvcking disaster.
 
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Bonafide said:
So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
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Are you serious?

Hair touching doesn't mean sh!t. Girls do it all the time when they talk to guys.

The one girl touched him to push him out of the way because he was creeping her out...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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He's still probably better than most of the people here at cold approaching :p

I'm not gonna bag him because he is out there trying.
 
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this thread would be useful if someone actually posted a cold approaching video as good example in contrast to the first vid. Only showing a bad video is not very productive at all at imporoving our skills.
 
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