"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How NOT to do street approaches (video)

ChrizZ

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3NO-20-W_I&feature=related

Supreme would get a heart attack seeing that.

However if everyone on this board had balls like that guy we wouldn't have so many virgins here. That's the only good thing I can say about that guy.

This guy could approach 1000s of women and he wouldn't get laid by a hottie.

Notice his horrible body language?

Notice how he scares them off by suddenly jumping in front of them?

We don't even need to talk about his clothing style now do we?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't underestimate a man who has the balls to do that many cold approaches.

Body language and style are easy to fix. He has the raw potential to be a monster.
 

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that is the thing about absolute raw brutal courage, with zero game. you start out looking like a retard, but you are super focused on pulling AZZ, merely doing the approaches will give you confidence, which will increase your attractiveness, which will give you more success, which will increase your attractiveness, and before you know it, BAM you are a natural.

If one merely had the courage to boldly plow through life uninhibited, the resulting success in all areas would be unimaginable.
 

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this guy's retarded.
Jumping in front of people like that like a clown, jeez.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
 

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What a fvcking disaster.
 

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Bonafide said:
So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
Are you serious?

Hair touching doesn't mean sh!t. Girls do it all the time when they talk to guys.

The one girl touched him to push him out of the way because he was creeping her out...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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He's still probably better than most of the people here at cold approaching :p

I'm not gonna bag him because he is out there trying.
 

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this thread would be useful if someone actually posted a cold approaching video as good example in contrast to the first vid. Only showing a bad video is not very productive at all at imporoving our skills.
 
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