"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How NOT to do street approaches (video)

ChrizZ

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3NO-20-W_I&feature=related

Supreme would get a heart attack seeing that.

However if everyone on this board had balls like that guy we wouldn't have so many virgins here. That's the only good thing I can say about that guy.

This guy could approach 1000s of women and he wouldn't get laid by a hottie.

Notice his horrible body language?

Notice how he scares them off by suddenly jumping in front of them?

We don't even need to talk about his clothing style now do we?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't underestimate a man who has the balls to do that many cold approaches.

Body language and style are easy to fix. He has the raw potential to be a monster.
 

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that is the thing about absolute raw brutal courage, with zero game. you start out looking like a retard, but you are super focused on pulling AZZ, merely doing the approaches will give you confidence, which will increase your attractiveness, which will give you more success, which will increase your attractiveness, and before you know it, BAM you are a natural.

If one merely had the courage to boldly plow through life uninhibited, the resulting success in all areas would be unimaginable.
 

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this guy's retarded.
Jumping in front of people like that like a clown, jeez.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
 

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What a fvcking disaster.
 

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Bonafide said:
So are those not IOIs?

I mean the chicks are "playing with their hair" and he did get that one girl to touch him....so explain please.
Are you serious?

Hair touching doesn't mean sh!t. Girls do it all the time when they talk to guys.

The one girl touched him to push him out of the way because he was creeping her out...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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He's still probably better than most of the people here at cold approaching :p

I'm not gonna bag him because he is out there trying.
 

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this thread would be useful if someone actually posted a cold approaching video as good example in contrast to the first vid. Only showing a bad video is not very productive at all at imporoving our skills.
 
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