You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Are people leaving that city in droves?
The population has decreased significantly since the beginning of covid. Add in the anti-business oriented government, tax the wealthy mindset, the high unemployment rate, and the stumbling economy, the soft on crime mentality, the significant rise in violent crime, and it's not an ideal place to live right now.
As much fun as you want... In your hotel room. That assumes you can actually enter the hotel. With De Blasio (ranked the worst mayor in NYC history), I do not believe you can enter a hotel and book a room. Wait until after January 1st. Mayor-Elect Adams' spokesperson said he will be rolling back some of De Blasio's mandates.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I hope that happens. Adams looks promising for NYC. Deblasio really did a number on NYC and drove it into the ground. Kind of like dinkins did back in the day.
I'm from New York, and the vaccine mandate is the one thing keeping me away from my family and friends. This year I will be spending Xmas and New Year where I currently live.
Why did you move to Bend, OR? Were you missing Blockbuster that much?
Haha, it took me a year after I moved to visit that store. Not gonna lie, it is kinda cool and nostalgic.