"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how much effort you put to get sex?

pyros

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what's the average number of days you need to find a girl you find sexy and end up banging her?

I mean, we all know women can find a guy they find attractive to have sex with pretty easily. Men, however, have to 'work' a lot to get sex, it is not an easy task.
We have to get dozens of numers, go out, start conversations, use Tinder, facebook, bars, social circle...sometimes you dont feel like talking to random girls...etc.

So, if you started today to go out and meet girls, get numbers etc, when would you suceed? how many days would pass?
This is just a number to calculate how much effort you have to put to get the sex.

For example, in my case, it can vary from one month (being super optimistic) to one year or more (being more real/pesimistic).
I have little free time so I just go out to meet chicks once a week.

P.S.
I am excluding uglies, fatties, and weird women in general from this. Just women you do find attractive.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bingo-Player

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if i really needed it and i had spare cash / time available to facilitate it, im confident i could get it by tmorrow evening

ive got 2 chicks orbiting me who im pretty sure would pay good money to have my D in them

one is a single mother who holds little appeal to me but she has her own place and has made it clear i can come over to screw her whenever .......

the other ive screwed before, she lives about 400 miles away but is extremely keen to meet halfway

now if were talking about how long id need to invest in a woman i actually wanted.......

well again circumstances permitting id be confident i could get the job done within 8 weeks
 

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This is why is vital to be exploring new plates constantly, because it takes some time to get a regular puss, and you don't want to end up on a dry spell. I think the english expression is "setting pipelines". My ideal situation, and the one I'm working towards is 3 regular plates and to get a new girl each week (and I mean working towards the bang, not actually banging her, lol), to explore possible new plates and have options on the phonebook in case a plate falls off. I'm far from this, yet, but I'm sure it is doable on a 3 years of DonJuaning around consistently.
 

Huffman

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Pretty much zero. Even when I have a long dry spell, I don't go to a random club thinking "man I must **** today". I do keep sex friends when I can, but I'm not desperate for them.

Random sex with strangers is exciting, but the act itself hasn't been too great for me.
I also don't play relationships just to secure sex; too much hassle in exchange for something that's not real.

Now that I'm not 20 anymore I really have to say it's way better if you have some real feelings going on ;) In that case you're also way hornier.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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