"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how much effort you put to get sex?

pyros

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what's the average number of days you need to find a girl you find sexy and end up banging her?

I mean, we all know women can find a guy they find attractive to have sex with pretty easily. Men, however, have to 'work' a lot to get sex, it is not an easy task.
We have to get dozens of numers, go out, start conversations, use Tinder, facebook, bars, social circle...sometimes you dont feel like talking to random girls...etc.

So, if you started today to go out and meet girls, get numbers etc, when would you suceed? how many days would pass?
This is just a number to calculate how much effort you have to put to get the sex.

For example, in my case, it can vary from one month (being super optimistic) to one year or more (being more real/pesimistic).
I have little free time so I just go out to meet chicks once a week.

P.S.
I am excluding uglies, fatties, and weird women in general from this. Just women you do find attractive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bingo-Player

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if i really needed it and i had spare cash / time available to facilitate it, im confident i could get it by tmorrow evening

ive got 2 chicks orbiting me who im pretty sure would pay good money to have my D in them

one is a single mother who holds little appeal to me but she has her own place and has made it clear i can come over to screw her whenever .......

the other ive screwed before, she lives about 400 miles away but is extremely keen to meet halfway

now if were talking about how long id need to invest in a woman i actually wanted.......

well again circumstances permitting id be confident i could get the job done within 8 weeks
 

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This is why is vital to be exploring new plates constantly, because it takes some time to get a regular puss, and you don't want to end up on a dry spell. I think the english expression is "setting pipelines". My ideal situation, and the one I'm working towards is 3 regular plates and to get a new girl each week (and I mean working towards the bang, not actually banging her, lol), to explore possible new plates and have options on the phonebook in case a plate falls off. I'm far from this, yet, but I'm sure it is doable on a 3 years of DonJuaning around consistently.
 

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Pretty much zero. Even when I have a long dry spell, I don't go to a random club thinking "man I must **** today". I do keep sex friends when I can, but I'm not desperate for them.

Random sex with strangers is exciting, but the act itself hasn't been too great for me.
I also don't play relationships just to secure sex; too much hassle in exchange for something that's not real.

Now that I'm not 20 anymore I really have to say it's way better if you have some real feelings going on ;) In that case you're also way hornier.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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